Add statusline scripts, context-load improvements, and prior distill updates

- Add statusline.sh and set-topic.sh for per-session status line topics
- Update context-load with improved directory walking and output format
- Update CLAUDE.md with status line docs and early-call safety note
- Update MEMORY.md and README.md with new script/skill entries
- Add memory files: script-statusline, skill-decompose, skill-orchestrate, gotchas-gitea
- Add networking.md best practice (nftables, systemd sockets, Docker forwarding, TLS)
- Update best practices from prior distill: documentation, kubernetes, scripting,
  secrets-management, skills-development
- Prune reflected session logs, add new session logs
- Update reflection state

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

best-practices/documentation.md

@@ -48,3 +48,7 @@ Human-readable project documentation:
 - Quick start / setup instructions
 - Milestone table with status
 - Scripts section listing every script with purpose and usage
+
+## Extract Reusable Patterns Early
+
+When a reusable pattern emerges during project work (a gotcha that applies to any project using the same tool, a process lesson that generalises), extract it into a best-practices guide immediately rather than waiting for a dedicated distillation pass. The guide pays for itself when used to audit and improve the current project in the same session, and benefits all future projects.