Add statusline scripts, context-load improvements, and prior distill updates

- Add statusline.sh and set-topic.sh for per-session status line topics
- Update context-load with improved directory walking and output format
- Update CLAUDE.md with status line docs and early-call safety note
- Update MEMORY.md and README.md with new script/skill entries
- Add memory files: script-statusline, skill-decompose, skill-orchestrate, gotchas-gitea
- Add networking.md best practice (nftables, systemd sockets, Docker forwarding, TLS)
- Update best practices from prior distill: documentation, kubernetes, scripting,
  secrets-management, skills-development
- Prune reflected session logs, add new session logs
- Update reflection state

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

best-practices/scripting.md

@@ -44,3 +44,5 @@ Every script that modifies state should support `--dryrun` / `-n`:
 - `grep` interprets option-like strings (starting with `-`) as flags — use `--` terminator before patterns or input that may start with dashes.
 - Always quote variables in conditionals and file paths
 - Use `trap` for cleanup of temp files and credentials
+- **Use `git diff --numstat` for binary file detection** instead of `file`. The `file` command is unreliable (marks shell scripts as "executable"), while `git diff --numstat` shows `-` for binary files using git's robust binary detection heuristics.
+- **Use `cat -A` to diagnose invisible character issues.** Reveals non-printing characters like em dashes, zero-width spaces, and smart quotes that look identical to correct characters but break YAML parsers, config files, and frontmatter. Essential when a file looks correct but tooling rejects it.