Add memory files, reflection state, and update docs

Memory files for decisions, bash gotchas, and process lessons.
Updated MEMORY.md index and README.md with new scripts.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

memory/log/2026-03-17.105314.md

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+# Session Log — 2026-03-17
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+## Summary
+Diagnosed why the `/housekeeping` skill (created last session) failed to load — an em dash in the YAML frontmatter description silently broke parsing. Fixed the skill and added a non-ASCII frontmatter check to `validate-skill`.
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+## Gotchas Discovered
+- **[skills]** Symptom: Skill installed correctly (symlink, SKILL.md present) but Claude Code reports "Unknown skill" — Fix: Non-ASCII characters (em dashes `—`, smart quotes, etc.) in YAML frontmatter silently prevent skill loading. Replace with ASCII equivalents. Claude commonly generates em dashes, so this is a recurring risk.
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+## Key Context
+- The fix was replacing `—` (UTF-8 `\xe2\x80\x94`) with `-` in the `description: >` field of `custom-claude-skills/skills/housekeeping/SKILL.md`
+- Non-ASCII in the skill body (below frontmatter) is fine — only the YAML-parsed frontmatter is affected
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+## Process Notes
+- `cat -A` was the key diagnostic — showed `M-bM-^@M-^T` bytes revealing the em dash that looked identical to a regular dash in normal display
+- Added the check to validate-skill with: script change, spec update, test fixture + 2 assertions — all 45 tests pass